The bishop's office might be the first stop for a
depressed or suicidal teenager in the LDS Church.
Parents see the ecclesiastical leader of the local ward as someone
who can "fix" their child's emotional problems. But while bishops can
offer spiritual guidance and some practical advice, they are not
psychologists.
And they should not be expected to take on that role, says Elder
Alexander Morrison, an emeritus general authority of The Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints. "They should not try to treat mental illness
themselves," he said.
Just as people don't hesitate to consult a physician about medical
problems such as cancer, heart disease or diabetes, they should not
hesitate to obtain appropriate professional assistance for mental illness,
he said.
Mental illness, particularly depression and bipolar disorder, are
common among young people who take their own lives.
Several parents and mental health professionals interviewed for this
series, "Teen suicide: Utah's grim reality," wonder whether the LDS
Church's high expectations for young people may contribute to depression
and suicide.
"I am an active, believing member of the LDS Church," said a Utah
Valley mother who did not want her name used. "But I cannot deny that the
culture of high expectations this belief system generates around itself
can be so deadly to its youth."
Depression runs in her family, and she said she is especially
concerned because her 11-year-old son is entering "those years of
precarious dips and peaks of emotion."
There's pressure to "live worthy," said Utah Attorney General Mark
Shurtleff, an LDS father of five.
Latter-day Saints are counseled to avoid premarital sex,
pornography, drugs and alcohol, among other things. Young men and women
are taught to live clean lives to prepare for missionary service and
marriage in an LDS temple. Those who make a mistake or fall short might
lose self-esteem or fall into depression.
The LDS Church helps teenagers deal with life's challenges through
weekly spiritual instruction, wholesome group activities, adult mentoring
and personal interviews with congregational leaders, according to Fred
Riley, director of LDS Family Services.
If a teenager is struggling and needs help, parents and youth
leaders can work with their bishops to get professional help, he said in a
statement.
Culture's role
Doug Gray, a University of Utah child psychiatrist, said culture
does play a big role in Utah's suicide rate but couldn't say it is
exclusively attributable to religion.
Rocky Mountain states have a 30 percent higher rate than the rest of
the country, he noted. Westerners' independent nature and the availability
of guns have something to do with that, he said.
A Brigham Young University study published in the American Journal
of Epidemiology in 2002 found that 60 percent of suicides in Utah for 15-
to 34-year-olds were committed by male members of the LDS Church.
Nevertheless, the risk of suicide in that age group was lower among
active Latter-day Saints than among less active members, nonmembers and
American males in general, according to the report.
The BYU researchers concluded that even though Utah is predominantly
LDS, there is no evidence to suggest demands and pressures on church
members contribute to the state's overall high suicide rate.
LDS Church leaders have long been cautious in their remarks
regarding how members should deal with emotional and mental problems,
often suggesting spiritual counseling with church leaders, priesthood
blessings and personal devotion rather than medication or professional
counseling.
Elder Morrison, whose book "Valley of Sorrow: A Layman's Guide to
Mental Illness" grew out of his daughter's struggles, and other former LDS
general authorities have attempted to bring more openness to the topic.
His book includes a chapter on suicide. Last October, the church's
Ensign magazine published an article written by Elder Morrison titled,
"Myths About Mental Illness." He makes it clear psychological disorders
are not a reflection of sin.
Finding help
Bishops receive no formal training on counseling members with mental
health concerns or suicidal thoughts.
"There is a void," said Rick Hawks, a psychologist who organized the
Mental Health Resource Foundation in Ogden. "Bishops do the best they can,
but they don't have a lot of resources."
About three years ago the foundation, whose board includes several
former LDS general authorities, took it upon itself to provide information
on suicide and mental illness from a Latter-day Saint perspective. It
makes available on the Internet (mentalhealthlibrary.info)
materials produced by LDS Family Services that previously were accessible
only to mental health professionals.
"Every problem that exists in a mental health clinic now exists in a
typical ward," Hawks said. "That's a scary thought."
If a new disease started taking hundreds of young lives, there would
be a huge outcry, he said, but "with suicide and teenagers we accept it
just like a car accident."
As an institution, the LDS Church has said little about suicide over
the years.
What was then called LDS Social Services published a booklet for
local lay church leaders in 1974 titled "Identification and Prevention of
Suicidal Behavior." It includes warning signs, a list of do's and don'ts
and suggests seeking professional help for the member.
LDS Church spokesman Dale Bills said he was not aware of any new
publications specific to suicide since the pamphlet was published 32 years
ago.
In recent years, LDS Family Services has offered seminars on
depression and suicide for stake presidents and bishops. Some local church
leaders have invited organizations like the Utah chapter of the National
Alliance for the Mentally Ill or Provo's Hope Task Force to make
presentations.
The church periodically publishes articles in its magazines about
depression, which sometimes include a section on suicide.
A 2004 article in the Ensign magazine included a list of suicide
warning signs among young people and advised readers to take threats
seriously and refer them to appropriate medical or mental health services
as necessary.
'Intent and circumstances'
Elder Russell M. Ballard of the Quorum of the Twelve addressed
suicide in a 1987 speech during LDS General Conference titled "Suicide:
Some Things We Know, and Some Things We Don't."
The talk dealt mostly with LDS doctrine regarding suicide.
"Suicide is a sin — a very grievous one, yet the Lord will not judge
the person who commits that sin strictly by the act itself. The Lord will
look at that person's circumstances and the degree of his accountability
at the time of the act," Elder Ballard said.
Furthermore, he said, the full circumstances of every suicide are
not known, and God will judge accordingly.
"I feel that the Lord also recognizes differences in intent and
circumstances: Was the person who took his life mentally ill? Was he or
she so deeply depressed as to be unbalanced or otherwise emotionally
disturbed? Was the suicide a tragic, pitiful call for help that went
unheeded too long or progressed faster than the victim intended? Did he or
she somehow not understand the seriousness of the act? Was he or she
suffering from a chemical imbalance that led to despair and a loss of
self-control?"
The Catholic view of suicide is much the same as the LDS view.
"We are obliged to accept life gratefully and preserve it for his
honor and the salvation of our souls. We are stewards, not owners, of the
life God has entrusted to us. It is not ours to dispose of," according to
the Catholic catechism.
"We should not despair of the eternal salvation of persons who have
taken their own lives. By ways known to him alone, God can provide the
opportunity for salutary repentance."