Personalize Safety Plan

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Although I do not have control over my partner's violence. I do have a choice about how to respond to him/her and how to best get myself and my children to safety.

bulletI will put my purse, car keys, and change for phone calls here ________________________________
bulletAn extra set of keys, money, and copies of important documents will be left with ________________________________________________________________________________________
bulletI can install security systems including additional locks, window bars, poles to wedge against doors or sliding windows, and electronic systems, etc. I can purchase rope ladders.
bulletI can install smoke detectors and purchase a fire extinguisher for each floor in my house/apartment.
bulletI can teach my children how to use the telephone to make a collect call to me and to ____________________________________________________________ (friend/minister/other).
bulletI can tell people who can pick up my children (school, day care, babysitter, Sunday School, etc.)
bulletWhen I expect we are going to have an argument, I will try to move to a space that is lowest risk, such as _________________________________________________________________ (Try to avoid arguments in the bathroom, garage, kitchens, near weapons or in rooms without access to an outside door.)
bulletI can tell ____________________________________________________ about the violence and request they call the police if they hear suspicious noises from my house.
bulletI will use _________________________________________________________ as my code word with my children or my friends so they can call for help.
bulletIf in danger, I will first call 911.
bulletIf I need to leave quickly, I will go via ______________________________________________________ (e.g., the side door, bedroom window, stairwell).
bulletI will, as appropriate, practice an escape plan with my children.
bulletImportant items to take if leaving:   
bulletIdentification
bulletBirth certificates (me too)
bulletAddress Book
bulletSocial Security cards
bulletMedications
bulletWork permits
bulletDivorce papers
bulletPictures/items of value
bulletSchool and vaccinations records
bulletCheckbook, ATM card
bulletKeys-house/car/office
bulletDriver's license & registration
bulletMedical records-for all family members
bulletGreen card
bulletInsurance papers
bulletFavorite toys and/or blankets
bulletI will review my safety plan every ______________________________________________(three, six, nine, twelve months.