As many
myths and misconceptions about the cause, course, and treatment of
mental illness unfortunately are found among Latter-day Saints as they
are in the general public. These harmful and destructive attitudes
include the following:
1.
All mental illness is caused by sin
I reiterate what was already stated in chapter 1: sin-the
deliberate breaking of God's commandments-does indeed result in much
behavior that is hurtful to self and to others. To every transgression
there must needs be-by reason of the law of the harvest-a consequent
punishment. The demands of justice are inexorable, unless the person
concerned invokes the power of the mercy provided by Christ's atonement,
by repenting of the sin involved, forsaking it, and accepting Christ as
his or her personal Savior.
The
power of sin to torment and harrow up the soul is vividly described by
the repentant Alma: "But I was racked with eternal torment, for my soul
was harrowed up to the greatest degree and racked with all my sins. . .
. I was tormented with the pains of hell; . . . the very thought of
coming into the presence of my God did rack my soul with inexpressible
horror. Oh, thought I, that I could be banished and become extinct both
soul and body"
(Alma 36:12-15).
Those, like Alma, who experience sorrow and feelings of
remorse during the repentance process are not mentally ill. But they do
require confession and counseling at the hands of their bishop. As
part of his calling, each bishop receives special powers of
discernment and wisdom. No mental health professional, regardless of his
or her skill, can ever replace the role of the faithful bishop, as he is
guided by the Holy Ghost, in assisting Church members to work through
the pain, remorse, and depression associated with sin.
That being said and fully acknowledged, however, it must
be reemphasized that in many instances aberrant thoughts,
actions, and feelings result from mental illness and not from sin. They
come, as I have said, from mental illness, not transgression.
They are not God's way of punishing the sinner. To assume
they are is not only simplistic but also contrary to the teachings of
Christ's Church. The bishop's first task in this matter is to discern
whether a deeply distressed member of his congregation is suffering the
effects of sin or of mental illness. He is able to do so effectively as
he understands the nature and symptoms of mental illness and is guided
by the Holy Ghost in his questioning and counsel. With a little factual
knowledge, and the guidance of the Spirit, the faithful bishop
will know how best to assist those in his care who are having problems.
If they are mentally ill, he will refer them to a health professional
for treatment, with his blessing, advising them to remain faithful.
The truth is that many faithful Latter-day Saints,
who live the commandments and honor their covenants, experience personal
struggles with mental illness, or are required to deal, perhaps over
long periods of time, with the intense pain and suffering of morally
righteous mentally ill family members. Those involved often carry the
resultant pain, anxiety, and burdens without loving acceptance or
understanding from others. I assure you that Church leaders are in no
way exempt from the burden of mental illness, whether as victim,
caregiver, family member, or friend. In the geographic area of ever and
stake there are severely depressed men and women; elderly people with
failing memories and reduced intellectual capacities; youth or adults
struggling with substance abuse; persons of all ages, both sexes, and
every walk of life, who exhibit aberrant, even bizarre behavior. Their
burdens-and they are and painful-can be lifted only by love,
understanding (both intellectual and spiritual), nonjudgmental
acceptance appropriate, and appropriate assistance.
Not long ago, for example, I met a man, a gifted
physician in his mid-forties, who began about five years ago to exhibit
the intense, excessive, and painful mood swings of bipolar disorder. His
problem is mental illness, not sin. Fortunately now is
receiving effective medical treatment for his malady.
Closely related to the idea that all mental illness is by
sin is the equally false notion that if you're living should, you won't
have problems. Life, for you, will I proverbial "bowl of cherries":
after all, "men are, that might have joy"
(2 Nephi 2:25), and if you're
keeping the commandments you can reasonably expect to be joyful all the
time. In fact, God owes it to you, or so you might think. But you would
be wrong.
Life doesn't work that way. Were there no opposition,
spiritual advancement would not be possible. If there were no
opposition, "righteousness could not be brought to pass, neither
wickedness, neither holiness nor misery, neither good nor bad.
Wherefore, all things must needs be a compound in one; wherefore, if it
should be one body it must needs remain as dead, having no life neither
death, nor corruption nor incorruption, happiness nor misery, neither
sense nor insensibility. Wherefore, it must needs have been created for
a thing of naught; wherefore there would have been no purpose in the end
of its creation. Wherefore, this thing must needs destroy the wisdom of
God and his eternal purposes, and also the power, and the mercy, and the
justice of God"
(2 Nephi 2:11-12).
Without misery there can be no joy. Tragedy, sorrow,
afflictions, all are part of living. And it is a blessing they are,
though often we have difficulty in understanding why it is so. Through
the grace of a loving Father in Heaven, whose very purpose is to bring
His children back to Him, none of us is exempt from tears and sorrow.
All of God's children can expect to experience them.
2. Someone is to blame for
mental illness.
Closely related to the myth that mental illness is caused
by sin is the equally dangerous misconception that someone is to blame
for mental illness. It is, I suppose, a common human tendency to blame
others, or oneself, for whatever goes wrong in life. Many victims of
mental illness wear themselves out emotionally by repetitive futile
attempts to remember something they, their parents, or someone else
might have done, sometime, somewhere, that resulted in the
terrible suffering they are forced to endure. Some blame their problem
on demonic possession. While there is no doubt that such has occurred in
very rare instances, let us take care no devil credit for
everything that goes awry in the world! Generally speaking, the mentally
ill do not need exorcism; they need instead love, care, understanding,
and support from everyone else, including their ecclesiastical leaders,
as well as appropriate therapy from a skilled health care provider,
Most often, lacking an understanding about the causes of
mental illness, victims blame themselves, and many seem unable to
rid themselves of terrible though undefined feelings that somehow, some
way they are the cause of their own pain-even when they're not.
Parents, spouses, or other family members of mentally ill persons too
often needlessly harrow up their own minds, trying futilely to determine
where they went wrong. They pray over and over again for
forgiveness, when there is no objective evidence they have anything of
note for, which to be forgiven. They may try to bargain with God,
offering Him anything, even their own lives, if only He will "cure”
their beloved child or family member. Of course, in the vast
majority of instances none of this works, for the simple reason that the
victim's thoughts and behavior result from disease processes, which are
not caused by the actions of others, including God.
Those who play the "blame game" with themselves,
believing their mental illness is somehow their fault, almost inevitably
end up harboring intense though unjustified feelings of guilt and shame.
They may go to great lengths to conceal the taking of medication, visits
to a therapist, and so on. "What if my bishop finds out?" cried a woman
taking Prozac for her depression. She was frightened and full of guilt
for what she considered, falsely, to be shameful or weak behavior.
Somehow, she thought in her confusion, she must be lacking in faith. She
had prayed often to be rid of her depression, and when her prayers
weren't answered as she longed for, she became convinced that was
evidence of divine disapproval of her and tangible proof she was without
faith and merely receiving her just deserts.
A wise bishop would not, of course, consider that a
person taking Prozac or any other drug prescribed by a doctor for mental
illness is any more likely to be guilty of wrongdoing or shameful
behavior than if he or she were taking insulin for diabetes. Having
determined, with the aid of the Spirit, that the person involved is
suffering from mental illness and not the effects of sin, the bishop
should encourage the member to continue to pray; attend appropriate
meetings; participate in sacred ordinances; fulfill all other religious
obligations; and get appropriate professional help-either from a
physician or a skilled psychotherapist.
Ascribing blame for mental illness causes unnecessary
suffering for all concerned and takes time and energy that would better
be used in other ways: seeking to obtain a complete assessment and
proper diagnosis of the illness involved, understanding its causes,
learning behavioral and cognitive techniques that are part of the
healing process, and obtaining proper medication that will help control
the disorder by reversing the resultant chemical changes. As victims,
loved ones, and all the rest of us come to understand mental illness
more dearly, patience, forgiveness, and empathy will replace denial,
anger, and rejection.
3. All that people with mental
illness need is a priesthood blessing.
I am a great advocate and supporter of priesthood
blessings. I know, from many personal experiences, that they do
inestimable good. I know too that final and complete healing in mental
illness or any other disease comes from faith in Jesus Christ. In any
and all circumstances, in sickness an in health, in good times and bad,
our lives will improve and become richer and more peaceful as we turn to
Him. "Can all ye that labour and are heavy laden," He said. "Take my
yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart and ye
shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is
light" (Matthew 11:28-30). He and only He has ownership of the healing
"balm of Gilead" needed by all of God's children.
However, without in any way denigrating the unique role
of priesthood blessings, may I suggest that ecclesiastical leaders are
spiritual leaders and should not be expected to take on the roles of
mental health professionals. Almost all of them lack the professional
skills and training to deal effectively with deep-seated mental illnesses
and are well advised to seek competent professional assistance for those
in their charge who are in need. Remember that God has given us wondrous
knowledge and technology that can help us overcome grievous problems
such as mental illness. Just as we would not hesitate to consult a
physician about medical problems such as cancer, heart disease, or
diabetes, so too we should not hesitate to obtain medical and other
appropriate professional assistance in dealing with mental illness.
When such assistance is sought, we must be careful to ensure, insofar as
possible, that the health professional concerned follows practices and
procedures that are compatible with gospel principles
4. Mentally ill persons just
lack willpower.
Some there are who, in their lack of understanding and
empathy, mistakenly believe that the mentally ill just need to "snap out
of it," "show a little backbone," and "straighten up!" These insensitive
souls subscribe to what others have called "the Sock School of
Psychiatry" -just pull them up and get on with it! Unfortunately, such
bravado just doesn't work. Those who prescribe such an approach display
a grievous lack of knowledge and compassion. The facts are that
seriously mentally ill persons simply cannot, through an
exercise of will, get out of the predicament they are in. They need
help, encouragement, understanding, and love. Anyone who has ever
witnessed the incredible, well-nigh unbearable pain of a severe panic
attack knows full well that nobody would suffer that way if all
that was needed was to show a little willpower. No one who has witnessed
the almost indescribable sadness of a severely depressed person, who
perhaps can't even get out of bed, who cries all day, retreats into
hopeless apathy, or tries to kill himself, would ever think for a moment
that mental illness is just a problem of willpower. No one who has
witnessed the bizarre delusions and frightening hallucinations of a
schizophrenic would ever think that a little willpower is all that is
needed to restore that person to health. We don't say to persons with
heart disease or cancer, "Oh, just grow up and get over it." Neither
should we treat the mentally ill in such uncompassionate and unhelpful
ways.
None of this should be taken to suggest in any way that
all persons with mental illness are helpless victims, unable to do
anything to help themselves. In many, many instances, sufferers can do
something to help themselves and must be encouraged to do so.
5. Mentally ill persons are
dangerous and should be locked up.
Sensational and grossly inaccurate and incomplete media
reports have conjured up stereotypical portrayals of the mentally ill
as crazed and violent lunatics, dangerous to others as well as
themselves. The truth is that the vast majority of people with mental
illness are not violent. The great majority of crimes of violence
are not committed by persons who are mentally ill, in any
generally acceptable sense of the term. In the relatively few instances
where mentally ill people do become violent, the incident typically
results from the same causes as with the general public, such as
feelings of being threatened or the effects of drugs or alcohol or both.
Furthermore, over the last forty years, as effective
medications for mental illness have become available and successful
programs of behavioral and cognitive therapy have been developed, it
has been shown that most mentally ill people-like those with physical
illnesses-can live productive lives in their communities. They do not
need to be "locked up." Like everyone else, mentally ill persons who
are receiving proper treatment have the potential to work at any level
in any trade or profession, depending solely on their abilities,
talents, experience, and motivation. I need hardly mention, for example,
Mike Wallace of the CBS television program "60 Minutes,” who has had
several bouts of severe depression but with appropriate treatment has
gone on to live an accomplished life as a distinguished journalist.
Similarly, Tipper Gore, the wife of former Vice President Al Gore, has
successfully struggled with depression and has courageously chosen to
discuss her problems publicly.
6. Mental illness doesn't strike
children and young people.
As noted by the National Mental Health Association
("Stigma: Building Awareness and Understanding"), the truth is that an
estimated six million young people in America suffer from a mental
health disorder that severely disrupts their functioning at home, in
school, or in the community. The majority of children who kill
themselves are profoundly depressed, and most parents did not recognize
that depression until it was too late. I reiterate: no one is immune
from mental illness.
7. Whatever the cause, mental
illness is untreatable.
As mentioned, during the past forty years numerous
medications, effective against one or more forms of mental illness,
have been developed by the multinational pharmaceutical industry. These
potent products have proven to be of inestimable worth to millions. Not
that they are perfect, or work effectively and specifically in every
instance. Far from it, unfortunately. But we are getting closer to the
dream of a "silver bullet" that will zero in on the specific cellular
or even subcellular site to correct the disturbances of brain cell
functioning that seem to lie at the root of most mental illnesses.
Advancements in research on brain chemistry and physiology and on the
function of chemical neurotransmitters in the brain are speeding the
day when physicians will have available effective drugs that are
specific in correcting the biochemical lesion or lesions concerned, for
the patient concerned, without the deleterious side effects which too
often limit the effectiveness of therapy today. I have no doubt that
such discoveries, which we are already beginning to see, will result in
striking advances in the therapy of mental illness over the next decade.
I long for that day to come.
Fortunately, there are a number of non-medication tools
that can be used in the treatment of brief or even chronic forms of
mental illness. Such therapies most often involve psychotherapy.
Examples include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), in which a
therapist works with a patient to help him or her understand
incorrect thought patterns and to reroute the patient's mental energies
along more profitable lines. This therapy enhances the patient's
potential to endure or possibly recover from a bout of mental illness.
Supportive therapy, in which the therapist focuses on providing hope and
encouragement for the patient, is yet another useful form of
nonmedication therapy.
Tragically, the myths surrounding mental illness impede
understanding and foster bias, prejudice, and social stigmatization
against those who suffer from this grievous problem. At times,
individuals burdened with mental illness may victimize themselves by
believing these myths, further intensifying their despair. Dispelling
the myths requires their replacement with truth and proper perspective.
With knowledge and understanding come love, acceptance, and empathy.
These things enhance the ability to endure and foster hope. May God
bless us to love all His children; to abandon none; to bear each
other's burdens; and to lift up, strengthen, and dry the tears of those
in pain and suffering.
(Chapter two: Myths and Misconceptions from the book
Valley of Sorrow: A Layman’s Guide to Understanding
Mental Illness. © Deseret Book, 2003.)