THE YOUNG man's
radiant smile belied the fact that he was lying in an iron lung completely
paralyzed. He seemed as cheerful and as interested in life as he had been when
previously seen playing basketball, working in his teachers' quorum, or
attending his church meetings in the ward. He was afflicted with poliomyelitis,
and his body was no longer sound and able to function as it once did. His mental
reactions, however, continued to be sound and healthy. His questions to
visitors, though haltingly uttered in the rhythm of the mechanical breathing
machine, were about how things were going at home, what friends were doing, what
was happening in the ward, rather than any thoughts of self-pity, deep
discouragement, or open hostility toward others. Although this young teen-ager
had had to give up most of the things that constituted his daily life
activities, he was able to retain good, even excellent, mental health.
Good mental
health as was manifested by this young man is not as common as it should be. As
a matter of fact, some authorities fn say that one out of every ten persons
suffer from some form of poor mental health. The National Institute of Mental
Health reported that in 1948 there were approximately 600,000 people confined to
mental hospitals. More than half of the hospital beds in use this day are
occupied by mental patients. We are also told fn that if we knew the people we
see in any general physician's waiting office we would discover that half of
them have poor mental health either as their main difficulty or as complicating
some physical ailment. Of the men rejected for service in World War II, poor
mental health was the biggest single reason for their rejection. Among the men
who were released from military service on medical discharges, about half had a
diagnosis which said their mental health was not good. If we realize that
divorce, delinquency, marital discord, and unhappiness also indicate the
presence of emotional maladjustment, we acknowledge that poor mental health is
the number one health problem of our country.
—Photograph by H. Armstrong Roberts
There are many
degrees and kinds of poor mental health. It can be as mild as a slight headache
or it can be as severe and disabling as cancer. It may only show in a few of our
personal relationships or it may be so disrupting that we must be hospitalized
for medical treatment.
Mental health
is a matter of degree, not an absolute attainment. We cannot speak of a person
having or not having sound mental health; we would have to say what degree of
mental health a person has attained. Neither is mental health a static
condition. We may have good mental health today and a week later have very poor
mental health. There is no time in life when we are not susceptible to emotional
ill health, so there is no time when we can say, "I have attained good
emotional health, so I need not be concerned about it further." The child
of six months and the person of ninety-two are in the process of developing or
maintaining a good emotional adjustment.
From a positive
approach, how can we determine whether or not good mental health exists? Oscar
Ewing fn has said that good mental health exists if we are able "to operate
at our top capacity both physically and mentally, to experience human
companionship, to accept individual differences, to take the bitter with the
sweet and be master of our own soul, to accord to peers the freedom we
like." fn A group of psychiatrists has defined good mental health as a
"state of well-being, of efficiency at work, and of harmony in human
relationships." fn Looking at our mental health is, then, another way of
looking at our happiness, our productivity, and our ability to get along with
other people.
One's mental
health could not be predicted at birth any more than we could anticipate that a
person might some day have tuberculosis or rheumatic fever. It is generally
considered that what happens to one after birth will be the determining factors
of influence on one's emotional adjustment. Mental health is not present fully
or absent fully at any moment from birth on. The achieving of good mental health
is a process which goes on continually. Through association, our mental health
is influenced by the mental health of our parents. We are the participants in
the mental health of our children and our grandchildren. There is no time in our
lives when we finally achieve mental health. We have to work as hard to have
good mental health at ninety as we do at nine.
The mentally
upset are found in all vocational groups, all educational brackets, and all
economic levels. Suicide attempts are indications of emotional maladjustment and
among those people who commit or attempt suicide are found the poverty-ridden
derelict, the millionaire, and the socially prominent. Of those who are
maladjusted emotionally are also found the businessman, the professional person,
the engineer, the farmer, and the laborer.
The process of
attaining good mental health is thus a perpetual striving for each one of us.
How, in this process, can our religion help us?
We know that
the child should have love and affection, respect and consideration, if it is to
attain good mental health, but how can a sound understanding of the principles
of the gospel contribute to a parent's loving his child? As a religious people,
we believe that the birth of a child heralds the advent of another spirit into
mortality where this spirit can partake of the experiences of this life and
then, having lived properly and fully, can be ushered back into the presence of
God. The child in the home of a good Latter-day Saint is a spiritual asset to
the parents who beget him, because the Lord has commanded that we should
multiply and replenish the earth. These points of view, as included in the
doctrines of the Church, would inspire any parent to see the infant as an object
to be loved and tenderly cared for, and these are the essentials of good mental
health for the infant. The child reared will an atmosphere of love and respect
will sense in the facial expressions, gestures, and tone of voice of his parents
their attitude, which will provide him the requisites of good mental health.
—Photograph by H. Armstrong Roberts
The basic
philosophy of the Church is such that one sees the declining years of life still
as potentially useful years.
As the child
grows to school age, he gradually moves away from the home and associates more
and more with people outside of his own family, and his early conditioning will
dictate largely the nature of these new relationships with other people. Here
too, the Church has activity which will give the young child a feeling of
importance and will also provide experience of self-expression. The Primary
organization and the Junior Sunday School provide the medium for greater
understanding of life through mental and physical activity, which is conducive
to sound mental health. The Primary activities give the young child a sense of
his own importance, allow for selfexpression with both the body and with the
mind. No one who has seen the look of satisfaction on the face of a child who
has successfully performed in Primary, could deny the contribution of that
experience in helping the child gain personal freedom of expression and a sense
of personal worth.
For the child
whose mental and physical growth has been effective and natural, teen-age time
is merely a continuation of health activity. The activities of the Church are
helpful in this continuation, or it may also help a maladjusted person regain
his sense of personal worth and achievement. The Mutual Improvement Associations
are great organizations for the development and perpetuation of sound mental
health. Properly regulated activity, which allows for sound personality growth,
is the essential element of the MIA program. The MIA, the priesthood activities,
and the Sunday School provide the teenager the opportunity to reach healthily
toward adulthood without denial of the strivings of the adolescent. Through
Church programs, the adolescent has ample opportunity for healthy association
with members of the opposite sex that can lay the groundwork for sound courtship
and eventual marriage.
The Church's
philosophy of the marriage relationship is sound for the furtherance of good
mental health. The concept that marriage is a contract that should survive
through the eternities is conducive to stability in the relationship. Petty
differences indeed seem insignificant when one views his marriage as an eternal
relationship which is advocated and condoned as a means of gaining salvation. An
understanding of the Mormon concept of marriage can be conductive to making the
marriage a healthy relationship.
The process of
maturing into middle age brings with it changes in interest, in abilities, and
in attitudes. The Church program allows for activities in keeping with these
changes in interest and abilities, where mature judgment and experience can now
take the place of physical vigor or youthful appearance. Good mental health is
the natural result of a home life which conforms to the Church ideals of family
living.
It is doubtful
that any group of people in America has a program which can be so helpful in
maintaining the mental health of the aged as can the program of the Church. The
basic philosophy of the Church is such that one sees the declining years of life
still as potentially useful years. The aged of the Church should still be busy
"working out their salvation," and thus have little time for bemoaning
the infirmities of age and rehashing the experiences of youth. With this healthy
attitude toward life and, in particular, toward old age, there is activity which
is really the essence of good mental health at any age level.
The continued
enthusiasm for life is readily seen in the facial expression of the older person
who has attended the temple, where he has done the ordinance work for some
ancestor who was not privileged to know of the Lord's plan of salvation in its
fulness. Ward activities also call for the participation of the old as well as
the young, and these activities help continue the sound mental health of the
participants. The priesthood quorums arrange social activities and constructive
enterprises where older people can meet and enjoy doing many things commensurate
with the age and inclinations of the older groups. Old, as well as young, can
find useful activity in the Relief Society organization. All of these things add
up to a feeling of being useful and of being needed on the part of the older
people. It is this feeling which accounts for the sparkle in the eye and the
enthusiasm of the older person who has found an activity in the Church program.
Thus, old age does not become a time of uselessness, of being unwanted, of being
a social burden.
Good mental
health is an attribute and an achievement which begins early in life and
continues until we die. The gospel of Jesus Christ provides the means whereby
the route along life can be made pleasant, useful, productive, and thus free
from the signs and symptoms of poor mental health.